Hello Friends,
I recently watched a YouTube video talking about what qualities people find attractive when searching for a partner. I expected to hear the usual things such as good looks, physical chemistry, and a sense of humor. So, I was surprised when the discussion strayed away from the norms.
The top of the list was STABILITY.
RESPECT was another sought-after trait.
We know the world changed in the last two years because of the spread of the virus. Perhaps for some people, expectations in relationships shifted to a deeper level as well.
Stability was about a person being stable and balanced in a financial, mental, and emotional sense. When they are stable, they can be present and accept others. True connection is possible.
Respect acknowledged that we are all
individuals. Different people and not cookie cut-outs of stereotypes. There’s
trust that each of us is doing our best. Respect lets each person be their real
selves.
In a changing world, stability and respect could build the foundations for a love affair. What do you think?
stay well,
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