Friday, 7 October 2022

Movie – “Ticket to Paradise”

 


Hello Friends,

 

“Ticket to Paradise” is a movie to take you away from the everyday to a peaceful island paradise. The rom-com movie features two couples and what happens on the island. The first couple, Georgia and David Cotton, are played by actors, Julia Roberts and George Clooney. They were the reason I watched the movie. As a divorced couple, they had a snarky relationship, sniping and being sarcastic to each other, which did wear thin for me. But I was happy to see them acting together again.

 

The second couple was made up of an American college graduate who is the daughter of the first couple. Lily quickly falls in love with an island man (Balinese), called Gede. Gede’s family farms seaweed for a living right beside the ocean which I found interesting to learn about.

 

Lily and Gede want to get married, but Lily’s parents are going to try and stop the wedding. Principal photography took place in Australia during c-virus times. Watch this movie for paradise escapism, the young couple falling in love, and seeing Julia and George on screen again.

 ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Movie Synopsis

 

Academy Award® winners George Clooney and Julia Roberts reunite on the big screen as exes who find themselves on a shared mission to stop their lovestruck daughter from making the same mistake they once made. Ticket to Paradise is a romantic comedy about the sweet surprise of second chances.

 Watch the trailer

 


Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

Photo Credits: Bernard Hermant on Unsplash.com

Friday, 30 September 2022

Christmas Romance Anthology – Holiday Kisses #3

 

Hello Friends,


This week I’m delighted to tell you about my romance story which is featured in the Holiday Kisses anthology being published 4 November 2022. In 2021, Gumnut Press located in Perth, Western Australia, put out a call for White Christmas romance short story submissions.

 


I was intrigued by the challenge of writing a Christmas romance, but how would I do it? Now I am a fan of the Wham song, ‘Last Christmas’ which has almost become a classic Christmas song since its release 36 years ago.

 

I imagined a heroine called Gracie who had a heartbreaking last Christmas and she’s not over it yet. She’s definitely not looking forward to the new Christmas day which is tomorrow in the story. She keeps her distance from a special man, Jedd, even though he catches her eye every time and she’s naturally attracted to him. What can Jedd do to make Gracie realize they could get together and make a great couple?

 

How will Gracie ever know that the special man right there with her is the guy she’s been looking for? He’s a man to love.

 

It was going to take a miracle to bring this couple together. So, I called my story, The Now or Never Miracle.

 

How exactly was this miracle going to work? Well, I took Gracie and Jedd away from homes and their normal lives, which is the ‘fish out of water’ trope. I sent them on a holiday to the Southern Highlands of Scotland to find the true spirit of Christmas. Then I enlisted the help of an unusual matchmaker.

 

As I continued writing, I laughed until the last page. The matchmaker is TROUBLE of the 4-legged kind. The romance turned fun, and it was wonderful that Gumnut Press liked the story enough to include it in their anthology. I hope you can read it sometime too.

 

Well, that’s my short description of The Now or Never Miracle.


And now for the official blurb.....


Christmas is a magical time when you choose to believe in love.

After her last Christmas left her heartbroken, Gracie Joyce will do anything to avoid another yuletide disaster. Sidestepping a kiss under the mistletoe is her first safe move at the staff party in Scotland. She must keep resisting her attraction to her charismatic, handsome boss, Jedd Taylor, even when the Christmas Eve party turns to chaos.

Lovely Gracie is a smart and funny woman who captivates Jedd Taylor. If only her smile didn’t fade when she laid eyes on him. How can he convince her not to pigeon-hole him as her boss, and let them get to know each other better?

A miracle unfolds in a picturesque village in the Southern Highlands. The spirit of Christmas comes alive in unexpected ways. When a special matchmaker appears, will they surrender or deny the heart’s desire?

My next excitement is that Gumnut Press have released a video featuring The Now or Never Miracle.


Thank you to author, Carolyn Wren who made the video. Carolyn also wrote a romance story in the anthology. I can’t wait to read her story, and the whole book.

The Holiday Kisses anthology is available for a special-pre-order book price of $ 0.99 (Australia) at Holiday Kisses Universal Book Link


Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn


Photo Credits: Gumnut Press, Seema Miah and Freestocks R on Unsplash.com

Friday, 23 September 2022

Christmas Romance Anthology – Holiday Kisses #2

 


Hello Friends,

The year is speeding on toward Christmas. The excitement is building as Holiday Kisses, the Christmas Romance Anthology gets ready to launch in early November 2022. There’s news from the publishers, Gumnut Press. I can share the book description and pre-order details. It’s been fun being in a group of authors who are enthusiastic about every single book detail like the cover, videos, and write-ups. So, let’s dive into the description of the stories.


‘Tis the season to fall in love in this heartwarming collection of Christmas romance stories.

It’s Christmas…a time for kisses under the mistletoe, tree decorating, fruit mince pies, fairy lights and snow in abundance. This holiday season celebrates the joy of romance with some Holiday Kisses.

Filled with love, romance, and a whole lot of heart. From a Christmas gift exchange program, Manhattan wedding, fireman’s calendar photography shoot, train trip to Edinburgh, Irish castle, holiday job, Christmas wedding photo shoot, missent text, plum pudding catastrophe, and a mischievous donkey named Colin. All with a kiss or two.

Families reunite, new friends are made, and old flames take a second chance at happiness. Escape between the pages and get swept away into these holiday stories celebrating the spirit of the Christmas season!

Light the fire, grab some hot chocolate and settle in for the night and dive into these Christmassy romances. With ten stories from Australian authors, you’re sure to find something to pull at the heartstrings while rediscovering the joys of Christmas.


If you want to grab a bargain, there’s a special-pre-order book price of $ 0.99 (Australia) available now. Catch it before the normal price is set at $3.99 (Australia). For readers living outside Australia, I have a buy link here;  Holiday Kisses Universal Book Link

Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

Friday, 16 September 2022

Backstage Chatter


Hello Friends,

This week I have a little piece of backstage chatter to share with you. It could be a bit funny. The chatter comes from the cast of the musical theatre show I was recently part of.

Every performance, the actress on the stage said her line which was similar to;

 “He snores like there’s a group of pigs on the loose.”

The line found common ground with the audience, and they laughed. It seemed that a lot of people know a heavy snorer and what they sound like when they’re sleeping.

One night, backstage, in the ladies dressing room, a conversation started about the challenges of sleeping with another. One of the women told us a real-life story, grin.

Her man is one of those loud snorers. During the evening of the story, she was woken up by snoring. She gave her a husband a whack, poor guy, to stop the annoying sound from interrupting her sleep.

The problem was…he wasn’t snoring. He was awake and innocent.

The woman had been woken up by the sound of her own snoring.

Not so funny for her.

I know what that’s like too. Sometimes on the weekend, it’s nice to have a catnap after lunch. I can drift off to sleep, the snoring starts, and suddenly I’m awake again. Oh dear!

So, snorers who share a bed should be careful with their sleepy judgements. Get to know the sound of your own group of pigs on the loose.

Have you ever known someone who doesn’t snore? One of my family members had enough snoring power to launch a rocket into outer space.


Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

  

Photo Credit: Toa Heftiba on Unsplash.com

Friday, 2 September 2022

I’ve Been Away

 


Hello Friends,


I’ve been away these last few weeks and busy at a small community theatre doing a show. The show story is set in the 1950’s and I’m acting two characters, singing and dancing. It’s my first time acting and some of the singing parts are solo. I’m still really nervous about the singing. There’s one more week to go before the show is finished.

Naturally, I’m a quiet writer type of person, an introvert. Theatre drags me out of my shell and helps build confidence. I also feel like my creativity gets recharged and inspired by the different way of telling a story on the stage.

I’m really looking forward to getting my time back for romance writing and blogging. In the background, Gumnut Press are continuing to work on the Holiday Kisses Romance Anthology book. I expect there will be more news coming from the publisher soon.

The year seems to be getting busier and busier. Is this happening for you too? 

 

Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn 

 

Photo Credit: Annie Spratt on Unsplash.com

Friday, 12 August 2022

Christmas Romance Anthology - Holiday Kisses #1

 

Hello Friends,

This week, a surprise appeared on fb, and it’s worth sharing. It’s revealing. I mean, book cover revealing. Yay! Gumnut Press has released the book cover for their Holiday Kisses Anthology.

Early November 2022 is when the collection of Christmas stories is planned to launch. The book will be a sweet romance read for the holidays, or before, or for whenever you want to indulge the heart-warming feelings of the festive season.

More details to come over the next months.

Take care,

stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

Friday, 5 August 2022

Regency Romance from the bookshelf to TV streaming

 


Hello Friends,

Historical romance stories never completely disappear from the bookshelf. During the last decade, hearsay was that when the world is in crisis, or there’s war, violence and unpleasant stuff going on, the real world can become overwhelming for some. Romance readers reach for their historical novels as a means of escaping reality.

However, in recent years, the world continues to be in crisis and regency romances are becoming shining stars. Perhaps people are enjoying the entertainment of regency romances as they flourish on television like the mega-hit, ‘Bridgerton’, and the latest retelling of ‘Persuasion’ which is Jane Austen’s story from 1817.

It’s easy to see the visual appeal of watching regency romance on the small screen. Such as the good-looking people, the fashion, the social worlds of pleasure, the intrigue in the gossip, the gardens and sweeping country landscapes.

I read an article on the CNN website which took a deeper dive into the attraction of historical romance. Read it here, Why Regency romance still reigns, two hundred years after Jane Austen.  

 

The article said, the heart of a regency romance is a love story. Love is something worth fighting for. The challenges faced by the heroines as they find their love matches are still relatable and readers can indulge in the stories set in fantasy yesteryears to see how the love unfolds in a fertile, and perhaps less painful place than the present world.

 

Oh yes, I’ve enjoyed watching the complications that love brings to the TV couples and their happy-for-nows. How about you?

 
Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

 

Photo Credit: Hannah Busing on Unsplash.com

Friday, 29 July 2022

The Author Didn’t Lie

 


Hello Friends,

 

Before the social media world came to life, traditionally published book authors had limited ways in which they could communicate with their readers.

 

I recently read an article set in this quieter, online age about the experience of author, Tara Moss. A journalist didn’t believe she had written her own book. It was challenging for her to have a direct voice to the public so she could answer the rumors.

 

Twenty years ago, Tara Moss was judged on her model looks, as if being blonde and beautiful, made it doubtful she had the brains to write crime fiction stories.

How did the Canadian-Australian woman of many talents prove she was the legit author of her own book?

A journalist invited her to take a lie detector test, and she said yes.

She passed the test with flying colors and up to the present has written fourteen best-selling books.

The ‘is she lying’ test seems ridiculous now.

 

Follow the link here to read more about her experience or to listen to the Mamamia.com.au interview with Tara Moss.

 

Her latest book, ‘The Ghosts of Paris’, is a gripping story of secrets and intrigue set in postwar London and Paris and is available now.

 

Tara Moss is also a UNICEF Australia Goodwill Ambassador, and an advocate for human rights, and the rights of women, children, and people with disabilities. A truly remarkable woman.

 

Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

 

Photo Credit: Noah Silliman on Unsplash.com

Talking Corsets - Part Two

 


Hello Friends,

 

Sarah Bendall has hand-sewn many corsets from 400-year-old patterns and made reconstructions of historical clothing that has survived. She wore the corsets she made and observed other women wearing them for her lessons in the wearing. Sarah came to understand how corsets impacted women. Based on her research, she says,

 

“There are very few sources from the 16th and 17th centuries where women themselves describe what it was like to wear corsets and hooped skirts at the time.”

 

Traditional writing about corsets is missing the lived experiences of these women and myths persist up to modern times.

 

Historically, it seems the people who wrote negatively about women’s corsets were mostly not corset wearers themselves. Nor would they have a need or a social obligation to wear a corset. But in past centuries, some men did wear corsets, discreetly, and for the same reason as women—fashion. Men also wore corsets for medical purposes such as a weakened back caused by Tuberculosis. The corset has endured over the years for men as well as women. Some modern men wear underbust corsets to flatter their masculine shape.

 

Corsets were once popular among women and not just for vanity or beauty reasons. Read more about Sarah’s corset research in the article here.

 

 

Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

 

Photo Credit: Nancy K on Unsplash.com

Friday, 15 July 2022

Talking Corsets - Part One

 


Hello Friends,

 

In 2020, Netflix’s first season of Regency-era romances starring the Bridgerton family inspired fresh conversations about historical clothing and corsets. In 2021, with my state isolating from the rest of Australia because of the virus, I tried to buy on-line, a dress-makers mannequin and sewing patterns for corsets. Nope, no luck. Everything was sold out with no sign of when supplies would be back in stock.

 

In the twenty-first century, why would women want to wear corset underwear or corset tops on the outside anyway? Had Bridgerton set a fashion trend that would surely fade? On TV, the corsets looked like torture devices designed to give the regency ladies a desirable figure but stealing their breath. It’s worth noting, there is forensic evidence that suggests slowly over a lifetime, tightly laced corsets could rearrange women’s organs and deform their skeletons.

 

So why did I want to sew a corset during the Bridgerton-inspired renaissance? Well, two large-chested ladies in the family who have ongoing bra problems wanted to know if corsets could improve their sense of well-being. A custom-made corset, sewn to fit their bodies sounded like a new kind of heaven. They find it hard to buy large-sized bras that fit properly. They’re uncomfortable to wear. The straps dig into shoulders. Back ache is a common, daily occurrence.

 

Corsets from yesteryears were invented in France in the 1500s and worn by women for the next four centuries. There is plenty of commentary about how corsets altered the female shape. But aside from fashion, working women also wore corsets, and they didn’t necessarily pull the laces tight and gasp. Corsets were worn for practical reasons like comfort and support. Instead of hoisting the weight of a heavy chest onto the shoulders, the corset distributed the weight more evenly around the upper body. This relief from pain is what the ladies in my family wanted to try.

 

So, the modern woman can try the benefits of the corset without the TV torture effect. She can wear a corset to support the bust and back. Maybe she will have better posture and not rounded shoulders. Or her figure will have a flattering shape like the ladies in history. And lastly, the corset has endured throughout the centuries without the attention of Bridgerton as lingerie for weddings, sexy times, or to be feminine and beautiful, or….whatever you like.

 

Next week, I’ll be writing about a woman who has hand sewn historical corsets from old patterns and she says, don’t believe everything you’ve read about corsets.

  

Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

 

Photo Credit: Tengy Art on Unsplash.com

Friday, 8 July 2022

Attraction

 


Hello Friends,

 

Have you heard these two common sayings about how people can be attracted to each other?

 1.    Opposites attracts (the human magnet effect).

 2.    Like attracts like (the not human magnet effect because like and like coming together                                                     repel each other).

 

Hmm…it seems attraction can work in different ways for people.

 

Attraction can be interpersonal or personal. Interpersonal attraction can involve having good thoughts or feelings about another person. A platonic type of reaction. While the personal ways people feel attraction can include physical, mental, emotional, or even spiritual, for example, a soul mate connection.

 

So, taking an interest in someone is not straight forward at all. That’s life!



What happens when you resist the attraction you have for another? Watch Bridgerton Season 2 for a fictional view of how that works. We see the drama play out where Viscount Anthony Bridgerton has a mental connection with Edwina Sharma caused by his sense of family duty. He convinces himself he’s found the right woman to wed and preserve the family line of aristocrats and their fortune.

Then we get spoiled by the super wonderful drama of his slow burn attraction for Kate Sharma, and hers for him. Anthony has so many different physical encounters, thoughts, and feelings for Kate. He spends most of the season burying them deep inside. Eventually, his heart speaks louder than his head. Kate also finally surrenders to the desires of her heart for him too. I couldn’t help crying during the final episode of the love story. That’s TV life!

Take care,

stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

 

Photo Credit: Unsplash.com

1.     Shawn Pang
2.     Z. Graphica

Friday, 1 July 2022

100K Blog Views

 


Hello Friends,

Wow and woo-hoo! I’m delighted to write that this week is a celebration of all the readers around the world who helped this blog site reach 100,000 views. Thank you everyone.

I started this blog about romance, history, and mystery back in 2015 when blogging was a common thing for authors to do. Gosh, hasn’t the social media landscape changed since then. Blogging and long form writing was predicted to be replaced by video format, and then video was predicted to be replaced by short videos of one minute or less.

Yet today, after an unpredictable history, this blog is going stronger than ever. I have no words to explain it. But I feel gratitude toward the people who’ve stopped by and read the posts.



So, let’s get the celebration started with a little romance.

Words can weave a story that doesn’t include anything from the worldwide news. In the softer reality of romance, we can believe in love, feel good and anticipate a happy story ending.

             “Romance means leaving things out: where life grunts and shuffles,

romance only sighs.”

--Margaret Atwood (Goodreads)

 

“Romance is the glamour which turns the dust of everyday life

into a golden haze.”

--Elinor Glyn (Goodreads)


Sometimes, I write about interesting curios from the past or knowledge long buried in history. History is another story where we can find our own place to explore. Indigenous cultures, Celts, the Roman Empire and the ancient Egyptian civilization are some of my favourite topics to dive deeper into. These old cultures helped shape the world we live in today.

             “Imagination governs the world”.

--Napoleon Bonaparte (Goodreads)

 

In this week’s history making news, NASA successfully launched its first rocket in 25 years on Australian soil. The southern hemisphere location was necessary because the science phenomena to be studied can only be seen from down south.

The rocket was launched from the new Arnhem Space Centre located in the Northern Territory. The launch happened with permission, and on the lands of the Yolngu people who are the traditional owners. The most fascinating aspect of this story is – the partnership between the oldest living culture on earth with the futuristic science of space. Amazing, and a rumbling boom was heard like nothing before in the Yolgnu communities and homelands.



Mysteries have an attraction that catches our attention. They can be about something strange, or which can’t be solved. Or enigmas that can’t be understood. The mind can’t resist searching for answers even if the path leads into the darkness.

 

“The most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious.”

--Albert Einstein (Goodreads)

Mysteries steer us away from the routine of everyday life to maps and mazes of the mind.

 

“When I left my body on a distant shore.”

--T.S. Eliot (Goodreads)

Enjoy your week. May life bring you happy days and delight with the people you love.


Take care,
stay well,
♥ Ashlyn

 

Photo Credits:       Unsplash.com

1.     Amy Shemblen

2.     Vicky Vladynets

3.     Girl with Red Hat

4.     Naeim Jafari